Not Just a Warm-Up
October 3rd, 2011
I’m not sure when oral sex got filed under the heading of “foreplay” but it’s time to change that. Although tasty, it’s time to stop thinking of oral sex as an hors d'oeuvre. Take your time. Stop rushing like there’s a plate of ribs waiting for you when you finish. There’s so much more pleasure to be gained from oral sex when you use all your senses. I think we’re in such a hurry to get to sex that we’ve forgotten how hot, how naughty, how sensual it is to really focus on oral sex.
Do you remember your first teenage romance? Do you remember all the kissing and nervous fumblings over and under clothing? Do you remember your heart beating fast and the first naked skin and the absolute lust for every moment?
Be that teenager again. Kiss for hours on the couch. Take each tiny grope of skin as a major victory. Lust. That’s your foreplay. Then, and only then, move on to the main course.