How to Give a Good Blowjob

Walking through the magazine racks of my favorite bookstore, I’m amazed at the number of covers promising to detail the “blow by blow of the perfect blow,” so to speak.    I’ll be honest – I didn’t even peek to see what they had to say. I know the secrets of how to give a good blow job – and I’m not even going to charge you for them:

 

1.    Confidence. There is nothing sexier than taking control of the situation and feeling completely sure of yourself.  If you show your confidence, your guy will go wild.

2.    Intimacy. Don’t get distracted – not by the phone or the TV or the dog barking next door. While you’re turning him on, turn everything else off. Eye contact is key – it shows your attentiveness and (again) your confidence.

3.    Playfulness. Enjoy yourself – I guarantee your guy will be enjoying himself. Don’t be afraid to try new things: new textures, new temperatures, new locations.  

4.    Read him: The sounds he’s making, the way his body is moving – he’s your road map. He’s giving you all the signs you need for a great ride.  

5.    Follow through: Don’t start something you’re not going to finish. You know as well as anyone that there’s nothing more disappointing than getting worked into a frenzy just to have the ecstasy come to a screeching halt 20 seconds too soon.  

 

So to sum it all up, stop worrying about how to use your mouth...how to give a good blow job starts with your head.